she said she had been driving by my firehouse for 2 years while going to her job and she finally got up the nerve to drop by and say hello.
Wow. This is so sad....and cool at the same time. Sad that she's been thinking about you at least twice a day as she drives by, because that must be a constant twinge on her heart. And cool that she finally broke through whatever she needed to break through to extend her hand to you. And sad again that a sister has to get up the nerve to speak to her brother, because (just like most of used to believe) she probably believes what she's been taught, that df'ed/da'ed people are evil.
Please keep us updated. And hopefully tell us something cool.